My Birthday Wish

It’s my birthday.

I’m not a big fan of gifts or attention, but I figured I get one day a year where it’s 100% justified that I steal the show, I might as well take advantage of it.

If you consider yourself my friend, I want you to get me a gift… only not that type of gift. Sometime in the next week, reach out and do something for someone. Lend a hand. Do a favor. Pay it forward. Do some good on my behalf to someone in need and  then let me know what you did in the comments section. I’d really like that.

Thanks for humoring me! Happy Birthday to me!

An Open Letter to Baby Boomers

Dear Baby Boomers,

I’ve heard you talking. You’re scared.

You hate my generation.

You look around at us, and all you see is a group of semi-literate, Ritalin addicts who can’t put down their phones long enough to participate in a face to face conversation consisting of anything more than 140 characters. We possess no work ethic, and we get all of our news from Comedy Central. Our overwhelming sense of entitlement drives you insane, and our credit scores make you shake your head in shame.

You’ve talked it over on the golf green with your overpaid, corporate executive friends. You’ve all decided that a future of Facebook addicted, text messaging hipsters whose video gaming has all but obliterated their social skills  is bleak and far from promising.

You laugh at our ideas.

You laugh at our lifestyle.

You hate our music.

You hate our clothes.

You refuse see our worth.

The future you see us creating is anything but ideal.

Now, let’s be honest. The future you’re so scared we’re going to ruin… it’s really not you’re future, is it? You won’t be around to live it, will you?

I will.

And I’m here to tell you that your hope-deprived and faithless views of the iPod generation is wrong. We are strong. We are open minded. We are creators, artists and geniuses.

We have the courage to look at the traditional 40 hour work week, the educational system, Social Security and fossil fuels and admit that we’re doing it wrong. We have the capacity to demand change and to make a difference. We aren’t afraid to negotiate and compromise to make a better world for each other.

We are adapters. We are fixers. We are inventors. We are risk takers.

I look at the old world you cling to so desperately and I see what it can become if you would just open your eyes and trust my vision of the future. Our youth does not equate to stupidity. Our inexperience does not imply a monopoly of good ideas – or right ideas for that matter – on your part.

We are the movers and shakers. We are the generation who is going to save the world you have left in ruins. Remember (if you can) your early twenties. For you to get where you are today, somebody had to give you a chance. Somebody had to see potential in this poor, disenchanted, wannabe-world-changer from the upcoming rebel generation. They saw something in you, and they gave you a shot. Without them, you wouldn’t be where you are today…

Now look at me.

I’m not going to sit around and wait for you to hand me my chance. If you don’t have the vision to see the incredible tapestry we’re weaving, then get out of the picture, or we’ll cut you out.

I am not weak. I am not stupid. And I’m going to take over your company, your industry and your world whether you like it or not. Pick a side… but pick wisely.

Sincerely yours,

Generation Next

Leadership Is…

Leadership seems to be the topic of the month.

It’s been coming up in classes, books, presentations and conversations. I can’t escape it. It’s following me.

Last week I was able to attend a UVU Networking night, hosted by the Alumni Association of my alma mater. Bruce Jackson, Director of the Center for the Advancement of Leadership presented.

He pointed out that our country is in the middle of yet another crisis, aside from health care, the economy and global warming. This crisis is that of trust in their leaders. We don’t trust politicians, Wall Street and we certainly don’t trust the news. It’s a truly scary world when you really can’t trust anyone to just tell it to you straight.  It seems like the only time people are honest is when they’re caught in the act of being dishonest.

But then, if these people aren’t behaving with integrity, they’re really not leaders, are they?

Our society has a skewed perception of leadership. People aspire to titles of leadership with the false idea that the title makes the man. They strive to become managers and directors and presidents.  The title, however, is empty without the character to back it up.

Managers \ne \!\, Leaders

Managers < Leaders

The true leaders, I’ve found, are those without the title. They influence change with strong moral character, hard work and determination. They have integrity. They generously give others credit where credit is due, and inspire others to reach their best potential.

Managers, on the other hand, don’t always have these qualities. All too often they have their position because of seniority, not their capacity to lead. They often rule by fear, using negative extrinsic and intrinsic motivators. They are close minded. They obsess over procedures and rules, and care about the team’s success only because it reflects on their personal image.

  • Are you a leader or a manager?  Here are 10 questions from Dr. Jackson to help you find out.
  • Do you have the desire to influence/lead?
  • Do you see leadership as a choice or a position?
  • Do you have a compelling mission/vision that others are willing to follow?
  • Can you translate your mission/vision into a clear and workable plan?
  • Do you know how to tap into the core motives, values and life purposes of those whom you work with and lead?
  • Does your leadership style (autocratic/democratic/facilitative) match your environment?
  • Consider your interpersonal skills… where are you excelling? Lacking?
  • Do you emulate the leadership you expect in others? What is your personal and/or leadership ethos?
  • Do you seek constant feedback as a leader? Are you a life-long learner?
  • Would you follow you? What would you need to do differently?

    Remember, anyone can be a leader. Anyone can be an influence for change. What are you willing to do outside of your job description to help others? What value and ideas are you supporting both through your actions and your interactions with others?