A Shift

ChangeThrough the years, this blog has been used for many things. I’ve written music reviews, movie reviews, restaurant reviews and yes, even date reviews. I’ve written about my personal frustrations, inner struggles and personal life. I’ve documented goals shared things that have made me laugh and yes, I’ve even succumbed to stereotypical blogger stigma and written my fair share of rants and raves, shaking my digital fists at the heavens in frustration of things I had little to no influence over.

Those of you who follow this blog have probably already noticed that the tone has changed a bit over the past few weeks. I think it’s time to open yet another chapter for the Big Bags blog. I have decided to feature stories and experiences I’m having (and have had) with the inspiring people I come in contact with in my life.

I hope you can glean something meaningful from the experiences that are helping to shape me into who I am. Thanks for reading. Really.

Now, go be great.

The Most Surprizing Business Advice I’ve Ever Received

Business Wire LogoToday in my PR Capstone class, I got to hear from Malcolm Atherton, Account Executive & New Media Specialist at Business Wire.

Malcolm was kind enough to sacrifice his time to come and present on the nitty gritties of Business Wire’s press distribution services coupled with some great PR advice.  The man obviously knows his stuff… especially when it comes to the integration of new media with old school PR tactics.

What inspired me to write this post, however, was not so much is presentation so much as it was the answer he provided to one of my follow up questions.

I asked him what one tool or skill we should learn or develop as students that would benefit us most in the professional world. I was expecting him to talk about developing good writing skills, or staying current with new technologies… some sort of typical, canned answer. I was shocked, however, when he said, “You need to learn how to build relationships and connect with people.”

What?!

In a world where people walk around with their eyes glued to their phones – a world where communication revolves around Facebook stalking, emails and Twitter – learning to make connections and forge meaningful relaionships with people is the key to success?

I was both shocked and awed.

The truthiness of Malcolm’s statement resonated with me. As much as corporate America would have us believe that success is all about the numbers, analyitcs and facts, I am a believer that relationships (meaningful relationships) are what carry us through life. They provide us with a higher level of personal and job satisfaction. They create value. They are the foundation of real happiness.

I guess what it all boils down to is that it’s really not all about what you know, it’s about who you know… and how you treat them.

Best. Advice. Ever.

Monsters

Monsters are Real

Thanks to Dweebist for this one.