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		<title>Why I Voted For Ron Paul</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 04:09:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I tell people I voted for Ron Paul, people often laugh&#8230; until they realize I&#8217;m serious. I&#8217;ve heard it all: Ron Paul isn&#8217;t a great speaker. Ron Paul is too old to be President. ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.thebigbags.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Apathy-Banner.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1707" title="Apathy Banner" src="http://www.thebigbags.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Apathy-Banner.jpg" alt="" width="560" height="237" /></a>When I tell people I voted for Ron Paul, people often laugh&#8230; until they realize I&#8217;m serious.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve heard it all:</p>
<p>Ron Paul isn&#8217;t a great speaker.</p>
<p>Ron Paul is too old to be President.</p>
<p>Ron Paul doesn&#8217;t look like a President.</p>
<p>Ron Paul&#8217;s ideas are <em>too</em> idealistic. (Personally, I love how idealism is somehow supposed to be viewed as negative.)</p>
<p>Ron Paul won&#8217;t be able to work with a polarized congress.</p>
<p>Ron Paul is a crazy person.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s really not much you can tell me about the guy that I haven&#8217;t heard before.</p>
<p>But here&#8217;s what people don&#8217;t understand: I don&#8217;t support Ron Paul because of his oratory skills, his age, his religion, his sense of humor, or even his amazing eyebrows.  I vote for Ron Paul because of what he represents.</p>
<p>Ron Paul knows he&#8217;s not going to win the Republican nomination (especially after tonight&#8217;s crushing defeat in Florida). I know that <em>ideally</em> (there&#8217;s that &#8216;ideal&#8217; word again) he&#8217;s in it to win it&#8230; but even if he doesn&#8217;t win, the opportunity to stand and educate the nation on the message of liberty, and following the constitution makes it worthwhile for him to stay in the race as long as possible.</p>
<p>While other candidates are busy perfecting their hair and their sound-bytes, or making excuses for their infidelity or their inconsistent voting records &#8211; while they&#8217;re  making false promises through fake smiles about bringing troops home and building colonies on the moon, Ron Paul stands alone in his oversized suit and educates our country in 30 second increments about how we got into the mess we&#8217;re in, the drastic measures we must take to fix things, and the perils that lay before us if we don&#8217;t.</p>
<p>My loyalty does not lie with Ron Paul. My loyalty lies with the principles that the Constitution was created to protect — life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. In a day where the government grows in size and controls more of my life, it&#8217;s imperative that we return to those principles.</p>
<p>Were Ron Paul&#8217;s stance to change from where they are today, so would my allegiance.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s important to remember as citizens, and as voters, that our votes do not support the guy (or girl) with the best hair, or the best speech, or the most money. Our votes support the ideas and ideals that these people uphold.</p>
<p>I pledge allegiance to the principles found within the Constitution&#8230; the document that required compromise, teamwork, courage, and sacrifice to complete. (Ironically, these are the very virtues so many of our public servants lack today.)</p>
<p>I do <em>not</em> pledge allegiance to a man. Because a people that pledged allegiance to a man  is exactly the type of country that the men who founded this amazing nation were escaping from.</p>
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		<title>If Our Leaders Ran The Government Like A Business</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 12:43:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[During this presidential election, I have realized something. Most of the men running for office (president, congress, or otherwise) are successful businessmen. Many have built businesses from the ground up. Others have worked their way ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.thebigbags.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Presidential-Candidates.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1697" title="Presidential Candidates" src="http://www.thebigbags.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Presidential-Candidates.jpg" alt="" width="560" height="260" /></a>During this presidential election, I have realized something. Most of the men running for office (president, congress, or otherwise) are successful businessmen. Many have built businesses from the ground up. Others have worked their way up through the establishment into positions of power. Most of the candidates have managed teams of hundreds, or even thousands to meet revenue goals, make profits, stay within budgets, and remain competitive. They&#8217;ve made very difficult decisions, and they&#8217;ve made compromises for the sake of progress.</p>
<p>What would happen if these same men ran the government the same way they ran their businesses?</p>
<p>Would we have trillions of dollars of debt? Or, would the budget be balanced?</p>
<p>Would we be investing our time, energy, and money in a bad investment (an endless war) that is weakening and dividing our nation, and draining our bank account, or would we cut our losses, and bring our troops home?</p>
<p>Would we be making enemies with our vendors (other countries) by setting up camp to monitor them in their respective offices without their permission?</p>
<p>Would the executive team be trying to find a compromise to tough problems, or simply trying to stop the progress of those with differing viewpoints?</p>
<p>At this point, after what they&#8217;ve done in office, would these men be employed? I know if I gave them a performance review, they wouldn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>A huge problem with how the country is being run is that nobody feels a sense of responsibility or accountability. <em>We&#8217;re electing leaders to enter into the most powerful and sacred positions in our country, and then allowing them to do whatever they want with a limitless budget, no rules, and no goals.</em></p>
<p>Then, we, as the board of directors, are not doing anything about it when these people fail us.</p>
<p>We have the <a href="http://www.constitution.org/constit_.htm">Constitution</a> laid plainly before us as a guidepost. It has withstood the test of time, and yet few of us are willing to read it, let alone hold those making decisions for our country accountable to it.</p>
<p>The mess we are in is as much our fault as it is the fault of Congress or the President. Yes, they are standing in the way of progress, and making very poor, corrupt decisions. But, we&#8217;ve done nothing to stop it.</p>
<p>These leaders are accountable to us! They report to us!</p>
<p>I think sometimes they forget who gave them their office, and who pays their paycheck.</p>
<p>They think we&#8217;re not watching. And too often, they are right. If you ask me, it&#8217;s time for some performance reviews. It&#8217;s time to empty out some offices. It&#8217;s time to set some real goals. Measurable goals. Goals we can use to hold these people accountable.  Then, we need to hold these people responsible for reaching those goals.</p>
<p>Many people are wound up about the presidential election right now. Yeah, it&#8217;s a big deal&#8230; but let&#8217;s be honest with ourselves&#8230; until we can de-polarize our congress, and fill it with people that will play nice together; until we can find tolerance and acceptance for people with different viewpoints and beliefs than our own, we are going in one direction&#8230; and that direction is bankruptcy, collapse, and extinction.</p>
<p>The irony is that so many people are oblivious to it&#8230; most of all, the ones who can control it.</p>
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		<title>Moving the Needle</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 14:16:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been puppy shopping, and I WANT ALL THE PUPPIES! I&#8217;m amazed at how busy I&#8217;ve become in these first few weeks of the year. Finding balance in life is impossible, isn&#8217;t it? Every time ...]]></description>
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<p>I&#8217;ve been puppy shopping, and I WANT ALL THE PUPPIES!</p>
<p>I&#8217;m amazed at how busy I&#8217;ve become in these first few weeks of the year. Finding balance in life is impossible, isn&#8217;t it? Every time I focus on improving something, I feel like it&#8217;s at the expense of something else. Getting out of a rut like that is just not an easy thing to do.</p>
<p>Maybe adding another responsibility, like a puppy, will help me do less. *eye roll*</p>
<p>On a more positive note, at least I&#8217;m pushing myself to grow and develop. 2012 is quickly turning into a good year. A year of new. A year of change. A year of opportunity. A year of smart decisions, and big things.</p>
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		<title>2012 Is Back And So Am I</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 04:45:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ok, 2012 never left. Well, it was never really here in the first place. So I guess the title of this post should read, &#8220;2012 Has Arrived, And So Have I&#8230; Again.&#8221; It seems like ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://accompl.sh/bigbags/8675"><img class="aligncenter  wp-image-1669" title="Screen shot 2012-01-04 at 11.43.34 PM" src="http://www.thebigbags.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Screen-shot-2012-01-04-at-11.43.34-PM.png" alt="" width="586" height="83" /></a>Ok, 2012 never left.</p>
<p>Well, it was never really here in the first place. So I guess the title of this post should read, &#8220;2012 Has Arrived, And So Have I&#8230; Again.&#8221;</p>
<p>It seems like I commit to this blog in spurts. I&#8217;ll write consistently for months on end only to abandon my dear blog (and my dear readers) for months on end (a year in this particular case).</p>
<p>I blame <a href="http://bigbags.tumblr.com/">Tumblr</a> for my absence.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve found that although Tumbling can be a delight &#8211; even an addiction &#8211; it has also slain my desire to write with a great slaughter.</p>
<p>I miss writing.</p>
<p>I miss it like I miss a good night&#8217;s sleep on a business trip. (Yes. I go on business trips now.)</p>
<p>Here are some other <a title="Nate Bagley's 2012 Goals" href="http://accompl.sh/bigbags/8675">goals I made for myself</a> for the year of 2012. One goal not on the list that is of note is that I will probably own a dog this year&#8230; I realized my desire for one during lunch today when I visited a pet store with puppies. Adorable, lonely, playful puppies. Puppies with sad eyes. </p>
<p>I want one.</p>
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		<title>Christina Lowe &#8211; Miss America Pageant</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jan 2011 00:15:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My good friend (Miss Utah 2010) Christina Lowe is in the Miss America pageant this week.  Currently, there is a video contest between contestants where fans can vote for their favorites.  If you watch Christina&#8217;s ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My good friend (Miss Utah 2010) Christina Lowe is in the Miss America pageant this week.  Currently, there is a video contest between contestants where fans can vote for their favorites.  If you watch Christina&#8217;s video (below) and compare it to any of the other contestants, you&#8217;ll quickly see how down-to-earth, level-headed, and funny she is.  She&#8217;s not your typical Miss America candidate.</p>
<p>To help her along her way, <a href="http://www.dailyderbi.com">Chad Waite</a> and I have pledged <strong>$50 a piece ($100 total) to the charity of HER choice if she wins the video contest</strong>.</p>
<p>You can vote for her on Facebook by first liking the Miss America page <a href="http://www.facebook.com/#!/MissAmericaOrganization">here</a>, then her video <a href="http://www.facebook.com/#!/video/video.php?v=10150101725398126">here</a>.</p>
<p>You can also vote for her by liking the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cHxKdLOFpd4">Youtube version of her video</a>.</p>
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<p>Don&#8217;t be heartless, do something for a fellow human. Ready, GO!</p>
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		<title>Dream Chasing</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jun 2010 01:40:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve had a dream of changing the world for a while now. It&#8217;s been this thought tickling the back of my mind. I watch my friends travel the world building orphanages, serving in leper colonies ...]]></description>
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I&#8217;ve had a dream of changing the world for a while now. It&#8217;s been this thought tickling the back of my mind. I watch my friends travel the world building orphanages, serving in leper colonies and digging wells so people can have clean water.</p>
<p>I keep thinking, I&#8217;m going to do something incredible with my life. My problem is that I haven&#8217;t decided what that something is. I haven&#8217;t set a time. I don&#8217;t have an objective. I talk the talk, but I don&#8217;t walk the walk.</p>
<p>I mean, I&#8217;m writing a book. It&#8217;s an ambitious endeavor&#8230; and I like writing. But my writing isn&#8217;t earth shattering or life changing.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s time for me to take what I know, and what I can do and make a difference instead of Tweeting about it. Any world changing suggestions? I&#8217;m all ears&#8230;</p>
<p>On a side note, I also have a <a href="http://bigbags.tumblr.com">tumblr </a>blog. I gave up on Posterous.</p>
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		<title>Graduation</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 May 2010 21:31:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bags</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been meaning to write a post about graduation for a while now. I got caught up in the joys of full time employment, relocation, and friend making so much that I almost forgot that ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.thebigbags.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Bags-Graduation.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1629" title="Bags Graduation" src="http://www.thebigbags.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Bags-Graduation-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a>I&#8217;ve been meaning to write a post about graduation for a while now. I got caught up in the joys of full time employment, relocation, and friend making so much that I almost forgot that I have this sexy blog.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m have no doubt that you&#8217;ve all be desperately awaiting my tidbits of post college wisdom. I feel bad to have held out for so long. Now you know what the girls I date feel like.</p>
<p>For those of you still in college (and I&#8217;m hoping that some of you are, so that this post is not completely devoid of value) here is my sage wisdom&#8230; some of which can be found in my <a title="http://www.uvureview.com/2010/04/28/nate-bagley/" href="http://">Senior Spotlight</a> in the UVU Review.</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Don&#8217;t sit in the same chair every day.</strong> We are creatures of habit. We do what&#8217;s comfortable to us. Instead of sitting in the same chair every day, take the chance to move around as the semester rolls along. I met some of my best college friends this way. Plus, if you creep someone out sitting next to them one day, or a new hottie adds the class late,  it won&#8217;t look suspicious if you move seats&#8230;</li>
<li><strong>High five your professors. </strong>Professors like ambitious students who are nice to them&#8230; at least the professors who are worth knowing. When you are friends with your professors, doors of opportunity will open for you during school, and after graduation. I&#8217;ve only been graduated for a month, and I&#8217;ve already seen the perks of having professors as friends. I mean, they let me pass my classes, didn&#8217;t they?</li>
<li><strong>Don&#8217;t take classes early in the morning.</strong> Taking early morning classes is just a foolish thing to do. It&#8217;s likely that you&#8217;ll fail your early classes because you won&#8217;t want to wake up in the mornings. Sure, at the beginning of the semester you&#8217;re excited to get up early and rush off to campus, but trust me, thing change. Friends are made. Parties are attended. Sometimes you get lost in Walmart or Ikea while playing hide and seek. Crazy stuff happens. And trust me, after a night of hiding behind a <a href="http://www.ikea.com/us/en/catalog/products/00067830">Hemnes</a> for 3 hours, 8:00 tends to lose its appeal.</li>
<li><strong>Never buy text books.</strong>.. especially for upper division classes. (Science and Math are the exceptions.) You won’t read them anyway. Spend the money on  something cool, like gum.</li>
<li><strong>Work for free.</strong> Find someone in your field, preferably someone with influence, and help them. Bend over backwards to do free stuff for them&#8230; as long as that stuff doesn&#8217;t involve a goat, a dwarf and a jar of peanut butter.  When you graduate, their referral will go a long way.</li>
<li><strong>Build your own personal brand.</strong> I&#8217;m not talking about your own &#8220;musk,&#8221; I&#8217;m talking about making sure that people can find you if they look for you.  Make sure you write things worth reading.. Make yourself findable on the Googles. Trust me, it pays off to have a Twitter account that links to a blog that has a contact page that connects with your email address&#8230; just in case someone wants to offer you a job that way&#8230; which has happened more than once.</li>
<li><strong>Be different.</strong> Lots of people want to be the same as everyone else in college. They all want to get A&#8217;s. They want to suck up to professors. They want to graduate with jobs&#8230; and most of the time they fake it the whole way, expecting it to pay off. Just be you. Be nice. Be thoughtful. Work hard. Smile a lot. Then, things will work out.</li>
</ul>
<p>I can&#8217;t tell you how good it feels to be done with school. I currently have my dream job. I have my fair share of autonomy, I&#8217;m allowed to master the things I&#8217;m passionate about, and I have purpose as a huge contributor.  I plan to make an impact <a href="http://www.mshare.net/blog">here</a>, just as I left an impact at UVU.</p>
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		<title>The Job Hunt</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 16:02:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This video is so incredible. I love how some people are so dang creative! Next time the hunt is on, you can bet I&#8217;ll be doing something similar&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This video is so incredible. I love how some people are so dang creative! Next time the hunt is on, you can bet I&#8217;ll be doing something similar&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Speak With Authority&#8230; Ya Know?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Apr 2010 17:20:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This video blew my mind. What a great observation about our culture. I&#8217;m accepting the challenge to speak with authority. Are you?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This video blew my mind. What a great observation about our culture. I&#8217;m accepting the challenge to speak with authority. Are you?</p>
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		<title>Hey, Amber Rae!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Apr 2010 15:49:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bags</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Amber Rae is easily one of the most ambitious people I&#8217;ve ever had the pleasure of meeting. We connected over the interwebs a few months ago, and then met up while I was in New ...]]></description>
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Amber Rae is easily one of the most ambitious people I&#8217;ve ever had the pleasure of meeting. We connected over the interwebs a few months ago, and then met up while I was in New York to exchange pleasantries, ideas and connections (though I&#8217;m sure she had more of all of the above to offer).</p>
<p>This week Amber Rae wrote up a <a href="http://tumblr.heyamberrae.com/post/538377413/being-great">post</a> that demonstrates exactly why I think she&#8217;s so radical. Not only did this post resonate with me (as most of the content she produces and/or shares does), but it was exactly what I needed to hear, when I needed to hear it. Here&#8217;s a sampling of her goodness and insight:</p>
<blockquote><p>if you are dissatisfied with what someone else is doing — whether at  work, in a friendship or in bed — this dissatisfaction is likely rooted  in your inability to communicate clearly with that person.</p>
<p>we all have different expectations and styles. when we don’t express  what we expect or want, we don’t get it.</p>
<p>similarly, if you feel anxious while collaborating with someone —  whether at work, in a friendship or in bed — this anxiety is likely  rooted in not knowing what the other person wants or likes.</p>
<p>how do you find out what the other person likes? you, very simply: 1)  ask them what they like, 2) give it to them, 3) ask if they liked it,  4) if yes, repeat. if no, ask for feedback and try again.</p>
<p>seems very simple, yes?</p>
<p>it’s much easier to call out what someone else isn’t doing well  enough by your standards. it’s far more difficult to put aside personal  biases and set ways of doing things to discover how you might please the  other person.</p></blockquote>
<p>If you like connecting with inspiring, driven and exciting people, she is a great place to start. Follow her on the <a href="http://twitter.com/heyamberrae">Twitters</a>, check out <a href="http://tumblr.heyamberrae.com/">her blog</a> and watch for her upcoming book to be published! I know I&#8217;ll be reserving my copy as soon as I can.</p>
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